
Monthly Musings
Feeling nurtured and inspired isn't a checklist item; it's not a one-and-done type thing. This way of being takes tending to. Our inner fire takes air, kindling, and the occasional stirring of the coals. Our Monthly Musings, called Tending the Fire, are just that: a front row seat as I tend to my fire and an invitation for you to do the same.
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Tending the Fire: The Many Versions of You
A client and I were recently talking about nesting dolls and how the imagery of dolls that build upon one another can be a powerful way to look at the many versions of ourselves…

Tending the Fire: Creating Meaning Amid Uncertainty
In many of my conversations with clients as of late, there has been a theme of overwhelm and concern…

Tending the Fire - Your New Year
I’ve been having conversations with friends and clients alike lately about the new year and what it means to us…

Tending the Fire - One Step at a Time
I have a small whiteboard hanging in my office. In February I wrote on the board…

Tending the Fire - What Do You Need Today?
I drafted a different newsletter for today and then realized this would be going out the day after the election...

Tending the Fire - How We’re Remembered
We dropped the platitudes and generalizations and tried to be specific, knowing that it’s important that our actions align with our words. We did our best to answer: What does “a life well lived” mean to me?

Tending the Fire - Pumpkin Spice and Goals that Feel Nice
I sent this IG post to the Nurtured Team a few weeks ago with a confession that…

Tending the Fire - “I’m less sweet than I used to be”
The infertility journey is total shit, but one thing I’m grateful for is the learning and growth I’ve had around boundaries. This text message is one example…

Tending the Fire - On Feeling Stuck
Sometimes we feel stuck. We’re not enjoying a particular aspect of our lives, but we’re also not in a place to completely remove it or switch it up. In those moments, it can be helpful to explore: If I can’t remove the thing right now, how can I change *my relationship* with it?

Tending the Fire - On Showing Up With Intention
As we move toward summer, I’ve been reflecting on what I need and want. Exploring questions like: How do I want to feel over the next couple months? What do I want to lean towards? What about away from? What do I feel called to in this season?
Through this reflection, two intentions that will serve as a guide for my summer have emerged…

Tending the Fire - On the Pressure of Productivity
The drive to be productive could also be called the fear-of-what’s-left-when-you’re-not-being-productive; this drive/fear had served me well in many ways, but it was now holding me back.

Tending the Fire - On Honoring our Seasons
IT’S SPRING!!!!! 🌼🌸🌷
Officially, like on the northern hemisphere calendar, and also within myself.
Sometimes it's helpful to think of our internal ebb and flow as seasons. My internal seasons don’t always align with that of our climate, but recently they have.

Tending the Fire - On Shifting Shame
There are these sheep who when threatened or scared, topple over and faint. It’s part of a hereditary condition.
I, my friends, am part sheep.🐑

Tending the Fire - On Legends & Love
Each of our journeys are sacred, you know that right? Sometimes I need reminding, maybe you do too? The journey is guiding me to learn lessons around boundaries, self-trust, and compassion. To feel is to be alive, and well, this chapter has brought a helluva lot of feelings. Woven into each of them is love.